<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" ?><!-- generator=Zoho Sites --><rss version="2.0" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"><channel><atom:link href="https://www.southlaurelgroup.com/blogs/tag/digital-legacy/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><title>South Laurel Group - Blog #Digital Legacy</title><description>South Laurel Group - Blog #Digital Legacy</description><link>https://www.southlaurelgroup.com/blogs/tag/digital-legacy</link><lastBuildDate>Wed, 25 Mar 2026 11:29:07 -0700</lastBuildDate><generator>http://zoho.com/sites/</generator><item><title><![CDATA[Managing Passwords for Older Relatives and Clients]]></title><link>https://www.southlaurelgroup.com/blogs/post/managing-passwords-for-elder-relatives-or-clients</link><description><![CDATA[<img align="left" hspace="5" src="https://www.southlaurelgroup.com/Steve Carrell password.jpg"/>Passwords and security checks are particularly frustrating for older clients. How can we make things simpler for them while still keeping their accounts secure?]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="zpcontent-container blogpost-container "><div data-element-id="elm_8VAh_UCCRQiXaQJ0M-BdGw" data-element-type="section" class="zpsection "><style type="text/css"></style><div class="zpcontainer-fluid zpcontainer"><div data-element-id="elm_SDXhgAFwT-6_wG1w8hr1Qw" data-element-type="row" class="zprow zprow-container zpalign-items- zpjustify-content- " data-equal-column=""><style type="text/css"></style><div data-element-id="elm_G7VrT43eSxKyrmwd6fM37g" data-element-type="column" class="zpelem-col zpcol-12 zpcol-md-12 zpcol-sm-12 zpalign-self- "><style type="text/css"></style><div data-element-id="elm_0F3CrV0WR-etJdYH82r__Q" data-element-type="text" class="zpelement zpelem-text "><style> [data-element-id="elm_0F3CrV0WR-etJdYH82r__Q"].zpelem-text { border-radius:1px; } </style><div class="zptext zptext-align-center " data-editor="true"><p style="text-align:left;">If you have elderly relatives or clients, chances are that you've been called in to a password-related crisis:&nbsp;</p><ul><ul><ul><ul><ul><li style="text-align:left;">&quot;I know this is my password.&nbsp; What the hell is CAPS LOCK?!!&quot;</li><li style="text-align:left;">&quot;I've been locked out of my account!&nbsp; I swear I only tried once or twice.&quot;</li><li style="text-align:left;">&quot;I write down all my passwords in a notebook.&nbsp; But I'm not sure I wrote down the last one.&quot;</li><li style="text-align:left;">&quot;Why do they make these things so damned hard?&quot;</li><li style="text-align:left;">&quot;You used to be able to call up a real live human being.&quot;</li></ul></ul></ul></ul></ul><p style="text-align:left;"><br></p><p style="text-align:left;">Not only is this frustrating for everyone involved, but not having a system for keeping track of passwords can result in security issues.&nbsp; So, what are good (and easily adoptable) methods for maintaining security and sanity?&nbsp; The discussion below is relevant for all of us, but I'm focusing on techniques that may be particularly helpful for elders.</p><p style="text-align:left;"><br></p><p style="text-align:left;">First off, why passwords?&nbsp; I worked for technology companies for years and I can tell you that security is a very thorny issue, particularly when dealing with identity, payments and financial platforms.&nbsp; For obvious reasons, only authorized users should be given access to these platforms.&nbsp; There are some alternatives to passwords, most notably biometric sensors such as Apple's facial recognition or Clear's retina scanner and fingerprint pads.&nbsp; I love these when they work.&nbsp; But most laptops aren't equipped with these sensors and they can also be frustrating (watch people try to pay with Apple Pay while wearing a mask).</p><p style="text-align:left;"><br></p><p style="text-align:left;">So, username/password combinations are the most common way to access restricted sites and apps.&nbsp; In recent years, most banks and financial services companies have also added two-factor authentication (2FA).&nbsp; This sends a text or email to the authorized address with an additional code that the user must enter to access the site.&nbsp; The logic is that a hacker who may have gotten access to the username/password combination through a data breach would be unlikely to also have access to the mobile phone or email mailbox of the user.&nbsp; I understand why 2FA is needed but I can tell you from experience that it adds very high level of frustration to older users who have to toggle back and forth between devices.</p><p style="text-align:left;"><br></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:26px;">Password Management Options</span><br></p><p style="text-align:left;"><br></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="text-decoration-line:underline;">Pen and Paper</span></p><p style="text-align:left;">It might be a little counterintuitive, but pen and paper is actually not a horrible way to manage passwords for elders.&nbsp; First, it uses a mechanism with which they are familiar and may be more likely to actually use.&nbsp; Second, it is shielded from online scammers.&nbsp; The downside is, of course, that it may be discovered by someone in the house (possibly an intruder but, more likely, a relative, &quot;friend&quot; or somebody working in the home).&nbsp; But that risk can be mitigated by storing the notebook in a safe, inaccessible place.</p><p style="text-align:left;"><br></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="text-decoration-line:underline;">Digital repository</span></p><p style="text-align:left;">This could be something as simple as a spreadsheet or a Word document (preferably password protected).&nbsp; One advantage to this approach is that it could be saved on a USB drive and not accessible from the Internet.&nbsp; Another is that a copy of that USB drive could be shared with a trusted friend, relative, attorney or fiduciary.</p><p style="text-align:left;"><br></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-style:italic;">Both of the methods above do require manual updating of new passwords as needed.&nbsp;</span> This happens more frequently than you might think.&nbsp; Users create new accounts on new sites fairly often.&nbsp; And existing sites sometimes require users to change their passwords periodically for security reasons.&nbsp; If your elder is not diligent about updating their password information it will quickly become out of date.&nbsp; I have seen client notebooks with more than a dozen previous passwords scratched out, until they finally gave up tracking.</p><p style="text-align:left;"><br></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="text-decoration-line:underline;">Browser</span></p><p style="text-align:left;">All major browsers now offer the option to save passwords.&nbsp; I've found that these can be hit-or-miss.&nbsp; They also require the user to be logged into the browser, so it requires remembering (or sharing) at least one username/password combination.&nbsp; They also do not work across mobile apps, only within the selected web browser.</p><p style="text-align:left;"><br></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="text-decoration-line:underline;">Password Manager</span></p><p style="text-align:left;">I'll tip my hand and say that password managers are my preferred method of managing passwords for my relatives and clients.&nbsp; They work across browsers (with plug-ins) and mobile apps.&nbsp; They allow storing additional notes.&nbsp; They automatically update when the user changes passwords on a site (when, for example, a site forces the user to change passwords after a certain amount of time or because there was a data breach).&nbsp; They allow multiple accounts per platform (for example, I have multiple accounts with Fidelity and each is accessed with a different username and password).&nbsp; The user only has to remember one username/password combination and can share that information with a trusted relative or professional advisor.</p><p style="text-align:left;"><br></p><p style="text-align:left;">There are a number of well-established password managers in the market.&nbsp; I tend to use LastPass because I like its interface and because the free level of subscription works well (although I've found that the paid versions do add some useful functionality).&nbsp; However, I know that 1Password, Enpass and Dashlane also have their advocates.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p style="text-align:left;"><br></p><p style="text-align:left;">Which of the above methods is best for you will depend on what you find important and, perhaps most importantly, which your elder relative or client will actually use.</p><p style="text-align:left;"><br></p><p style="text-align:left;"><br></p><p style="text-align:left;"><br></p></div>
</div></div></div></div></div></div> ]]></content:encoded><pubDate>Mon, 14 Mar 2022 15:36:20 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Basics of Managing Cryptocurrency Assets in an Estate]]></title><link>https://www.southlaurelgroup.com/blogs/post/Cryptocurrencies-in-Trusts-and-Probates</link><description><![CDATA[<img align="left" hspace="5" src="https://www.southlaurelgroup.com/images/Cryptocurrency_exchange.jfif"/>How do you manage cryptocurrency assets in a trust or probate? What are the basics of buying, selling, trading and valuing these assets within the context of an estate?]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="zpcontent-container blogpost-container "><div data-element-id="elm_gc5o461TS0Ki9ijRr70W-g" data-element-type="section" class="zpsection "><style type="text/css"></style><div class="zpcontainer-fluid zpcontainer"><div data-element-id="elm_0wBfZIrKQ7Or97AqPmnQ8A" data-element-type="row" class="zprow zprow-container zpalign-items- zpjustify-content- " data-equal-column=""><style type="text/css"></style><div data-element-id="elm_xJmz22_kS6WbrPJwBci5HA" data-element-type="column" class="zpelem-col zpcol-12 zpcol-md-12 zpcol-sm-12 zpalign-self- "><style type="text/css"></style><div data-element-id="elm_-PfbsRATQFildCBgvKyhGQ" data-element-type="text" class="zpelement zpelem-text "><style> [data-element-id="elm_-PfbsRATQFildCBgvKyhGQ"].zpelem-text { border-radius:1px; } </style><div class="zptext zptext-align-center " data-editor="true"><p style="text-align:left;">Sooner or later, professional trustees and probate referees will come across an estate with cryptocurrency assets.&nbsp; These assets pose some challenges, not least of which is understanding the mechanics of how to buy, sell and value them.&nbsp; The infrastructure around cryptocurrencies is not as developed as that for other assets (such as bank and investment accounts).&nbsp; That means that documenting and accounting for cryptocurrencies involves some research.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p style="text-align:left;"><br></p><p style="text-align:left;">In the beginning of the cryptocurrency boom, investors needed some technological sophistication.&nbsp; For example, with Bitcoin, one of the earliest cryptocurrencies, an investor would hold their private key in a Bitcoin &quot;wallet.&quot;&nbsp; That digital wallet would then need to be stored in a very safe place.&nbsp; The news was rife at the time with stories about Bitcoin investors who lost their wallets and, consequently, all of their wildly-inflated Bitcoin fortunes.</p><p style="text-align:left;"><br></p><p style="text-align:left;">These days, most investors go onto an exchange to buy and sell cryptocurrencies.&nbsp; There are a lot of different models for these exchanges but, for the most part, individual investors create an account and the exchange manages the digital security and holds the digital wallet. The account is linkable to an individual and is typically accessed like any other account (username, password, two-factor authentication, etc.).&nbsp; These exchanges are helpful to trustees and probate referees, since they operate similarly to other types of brokerage accounts (that is, they are a third party managing the funds and can be worked with just as any other financial institution).&nbsp; They should work with the trustee given the appropriate documentation or court order.&nbsp; The largest of these centralized exchanges are Binax and Coinbase Exchange.</p><p style="text-align:left;"><br></p><p style="text-align:left;">There are more sophisticated trading models for hedge funds, institutional investors and very sophisticated individual investors.&nbsp; If you come across one of these, your best approach is to find a financial professional with experience in these types of exchanges.&nbsp; The same is true if the estate contains cryptocurrency assets that were purchased directly or held since the early days.&nbsp; There are more than 1,500 cryptocurrencies and many of them are not traded on the exchanges.&nbsp; These assets require special expertise and careful research to manage properly.</p><p style="text-align:left;"><br></p><p style="text-align:left;">In terms of historical valuation of cryptocurrencies (necessary to establish value at the beginning of the accounting period), there are a lot of data sources.&nbsp; For this purpose, I find that CoinMarketCap is a useful resource.&nbsp; For example, here is the <a href="https://coinmarketcap.com/currencies/bitcoin/historical-data/" title="daily price information for Bitcoin" rel="">daily price information for Bitcoin</a>.&nbsp; There are other sources of data that are designed for investors, with hourly data and attached metadata.&nbsp; These are usually accessed through APIs for modeling - for the purposes of trustees, they are confusing and overkill.</p><p style="text-align:left;"><br></p><p style="text-align:left;">Th cryptocurrency market is evolving rapidly and the good news (for trustees and probate referees) is that as it becomes more widely established and accessed by non-technical investors, institutions and infrastructure are developing that will make it simpler to manage within an estate.</p><p style="text-align:left;"><br></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="text-decoration-line:underline;">Additional Articles</span></p><div style="color:inherit;"><ul><li style="text-align:left;"><a href="https://www.southlaurelgroup.com/blogs/post/cryptocurrencies-and-trusts" title="A basic primer on cryptocurrencies and how they workThe role of cryptocurrencies in a trust portfolio (coming soon)" rel="">A basic primer on cryptocurrencies and how they work</a></li><li style="text-align:left;"><a href="https://www.southlaurelgroup.com/blogs/post/Should-Cryptocurrencies-be-Part-of-a-Trust-Portfolio" title="Should cryptocurrencies be part of your Trust's portfolio?" rel="">Should cryptocurrencies be part of your Trust's portfolio?</a><br></li></ul></div>
</div></div></div></div></div></div></div> ]]></content:encoded><pubDate>Fri, 04 Feb 2022 08:43:08 -0800</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Cryptocurrencies and Trusts]]></title><link>https://www.southlaurelgroup.com/blogs/post/cryptocurrencies-and-trusts</link><description><![CDATA[<img align="left" hspace="5" src="https://www.southlaurelgroup.com/Bitcoin drawing.jpg"/>Cryptocurrencies are beginning to show up in estates where you might not expect them. How should these assets be handled by estate attorneys and fiduciaries?]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="zpcontent-container blogpost-container "><div data-element-id="elm_qwYKTySzTKGSH28GMp6zYQ" data-element-type="section" class="zpsection "><style type="text/css"></style><div class="zpcontainer-fluid zpcontainer"><div data-element-id="elm_IWTsClFOR7GJl2Csf_hMzg" data-element-type="row" class="zprow zprow-container zpalign-items- zpjustify-content- " data-equal-column=""><style type="text/css"></style><div data-element-id="elm_xSsmpUiDQduihgH5e-O4vg" data-element-type="column" class="zpelem-col zpcol-12 zpcol-md-12 zpcol-sm-12 zpalign-self- "><style type="text/css"></style><div data-element-id="elm_EK49cadVQqanJOujVte60w" data-element-type="text" class="zpelement zpelem-text "><style> [data-element-id="elm_EK49cadVQqanJOujVte60w"].zpelem-text { border-radius:1px; } </style><div class="zptext zptext-align-center " data-editor="true"><p style="text-align:left;">I am beginning to see more and more requests from fellow fiduciaries, estate attorneys and accountants for help with trusts and estates that hold cryptocurrencies as part of their portfolio.&nbsp; There are very real questions about valuation, liquidity, transaction costs and risk.&nbsp; Some of those questions are not yet fully worked out in the courts, but a basic understanding of cryptocurrencies and how they work may help.</p><p style="text-align:left;"><br></p><p style="text-align:left;">There is a lot of ground to cover, so I'm going to break this into three posts:</p><ul><ul><ul><li style="text-align:left;">A basic primer on cryptocurrencies and how they work (this post)</li><li style="text-align:left;"><a href="https://www.southlaurelgroup.com/blogs/post/Cryptocurrencies-in-Trusts-and-Probates" title="The mechanics of how to buy, sell and store cryptocurrencies" rel="">The mechanics of how to buy, sell and store cryptocurrencies</a><br></li><li style="text-align:left;"><a href="https://www.southlaurelgroup.com/blogs/post/Should-Cryptocurrencies-be-Part-of-a-Trust-Portfolio" title="The role of cryptocurrencies in a trust portfolio" rel="">The role of cryptocurrencies in a trust portfolio</a><br></li></ul></ul></ul><p style="text-align:left;"><br></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:inherit;text-align:center;">Most of us have heard of Bitcoin and Ethereum, but they are just the largest of cryptocurrencies.&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>There are anywhere between 6,000 and 15,000 different cryptocurrencies (depending on how you count them), which is an indication of both how easy it is to create a cryptocurrency and how little most of them are used.&nbsp; As of December 2021, all cryptocurrencies combined are worth an estimated <span style="font-style:italic;">$2.3 trillion</span>.&nbsp; That's a lot of money and it is beginning to show up in trusts and estates where you might not expect.&nbsp; That presents a challenge for trust administrators who need to professionally manage these assets.</p></div>
</div><div data-element-id="elm_MvOCWAU-MN7YPdw4-qm1Bw" data-element-type="table" class="zpelement zpelem-table "><style type="text/css"> [data-element-id="elm_MvOCWAU-MN7YPdw4-qm1Bw"].zpelem-table{ border-radius:1px; } [data-element-id="elm_MvOCWAU-MN7YPdw4-qm1Bw"] .zptable{ width:50% !important; } </style><div class="zptable zptable-align-center zptable-header- zptable-header-none zptable-cell-outline-on zptable-outline-off zptable-style- " data-width="50" data-editor="true"><table style="width:50%;"><tbody><tr><td style="width:50%;text-align:center;"><span style="font-family:Roboto;font-size:24px;">Cryptocurrency </span></td><td style="width:50%;"><div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-family:Roboto;font-size:24px;"> Market Capitalization</span></div><div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-family:Roboto;font-size:24px;">(USD Billions a</span><span style="font-family:Roboto;"><span style="font-size:24px;">s of December 2021)</span></span></div></td></tr><tr><td style="width:50%;"> Bitcoin<br></td><td style="text-align:center;width:50%;"> 923.2</td></tr><tr><td style="width:50%;"> Ethereum</td><td style="text-align:center;width:50%;"> 470.6</td></tr><tr><td style="width:50%;"> Binance Coin</td><td style="text-align:center;width:50%;"> 88.6</td></tr><tr><td style="width:50%;"> Tether</td><td style="text-align:center;width:50%;"> 77.4</td></tr><tr><td style="width:50%;"> Solana</td><td style="text-align:center;width:50%;"> 56.0</td></tr><tr><td style="width:50%;"> XRP</td><td style="text-align:center;width:50%;"> 46.6</td></tr><tr><td style="width:50%;"> Cardano</td><td style="text-align:center;width:50%;"> 46.0</td></tr><tr><td style="width:50%;"> USD Coin</td><td style="text-align:center;width:50%;"> 42.4</td></tr><tr><td style="width:50%;"> Terra</td><td style="text-align:center;width:50%;"> 34.1</td></tr><tr><td style="width:50%;"> Avalanche</td><td style="text-align:center;width:50%;"> 29.3</td></tr><tr><td style="width:50%;" class="zp-selected-cell"><span style="font-size:12px;">Source: </span><a href="https://www.nerdwallet.com/article/investing/cryptocurrency-7-things-to-know" title="NerdWallet, December 23, 2021" rel=""><span style="font-size:12px;">NerdWallet, December 23, 2021</span></a></td><td style="width:50%;"> </td></tr></tbody></table></div>
</div><div data-element-id="elm_RmDKZ4-DaAyqhv7hTqHwlQ" data-element-type="text" class="zpelement zpelem-text "><style> [data-element-id="elm_RmDKZ4-DaAyqhv7hTqHwlQ"].zpelem-text { border-radius:1px; } </style><div class="zptext zptext-align-left " data-editor="true"><p>Cryptocurrencies differ, but the important ones all share a couple of things in common: they are built on blockchain technology and they use cryptography to provide selective access to buy and sell the currency.&nbsp; That last bit is going to be crucial for anybody trying to manage that asset within a trust or estate.</p><p><br></p><p>A blockchain is simply a distributed ledger that is replicated and validated across multiple copies (or nodes).&nbsp; The ledger can be public or private but it makes it simple to verify transactions and values and difficult to corrupt or change (since it sits in multiple places and any change must be validated by all nodes in the network).&nbsp; Blockchain technology is being implemented for a number of use cases - cryptocurrency is only the most well-known.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>All cryptocurrencies depend on some cryptographic scheme (hence, the name).&nbsp; Typically, they involve both a public address and a private key which must be stored in a safe place and without which the account is inaccessible.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>Let's take the largest cryptocurrency, Bitcoin, as an example.&nbsp;&nbsp;<span style="color:inherit;">An individual holds Bitcoin by storing it in a digital wallet, which is assigned a Bitcoin address. A Bitcoin address is similar to an e-mail address in that it is used as a destination to send Bitcoin. The wallet is secured by the use of a 64-digit private key, which is used to sign every transaction made by that particular wallet and is kept secret by the user.</span></p><div style="color:inherit;"><div style="color:inherit;"><p style="font-size:14.4px;"><br></p><p><span style="font-size:18px;">Bitcoin’s anonymous design creates challenges for estate planning because&nbsp;</span></p><ul><ul><ul><ul><li><span>There is no personally identifiable information associated with the Bitcoin</span></li><li><span>Bitcoin is a virtual asset that may not be readily identifiable to the trustee</span></li><li><span>All Bitcoin transactions require the individual’s private key</span></li></ul></ul></ul></ul><p><span style="font-size:18px;"><br></span></p><p><span style="font-size:18px;">A Bitcoin wallet has a public address and a private key. A Bitcoin owner does not put his/her name or social security number on the wallet and there is no certificate of title, deed, or account statement that proves ownership of the Bitcoin. In the typical Revocable Living Trust estate plan, a person would transfer an asset in to the name of their Trust thereby allowing their successor trustee to control the asset after the settlor’s passing. This cannot be done with a Bitcoin wallet.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:18px;"><br></span></p><p><span style="font-size:18px;">Further complicating the matter, Bitcoin is a virtual asset that can be stored on a USB thumb drive, a phone, a hard drive, or anything that is capable of storing data. This makes it very possible that a trustee will overlook Bitcoin assets because they will not know what they are looking at.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:18px;"><br></span></p><p><span style="font-size:18px;">Lastly, and perhaps most importantly, the only way that transactions of Bitcoin can occur is through the use of the owner’s private key. This key is saved in the Bitcoin wallet and it is what allows someone to spend the Bitcoin. This presents a two-part challenge. First, the settlor will need to keep the private key absolutely secure while alive, while also providing a method for the trustee to learn of the private key once the settlor has passed away. Second, if the private key is lost there is no way to recover it and all the Bitcoin will be lost.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:18px;"><br></span></p><p><span style="font-size:18px;">This last point is important because it could be potentially devastating to an estate plan. With most other assets there is a third party holding the asset that can be subject to Court jurisdiction. So, in the event an asset is left out of a Trust the mistake is generally fixed by filing a petition with the Probate Court. Not the ideal solution, but it is not catastrophic either. However, this option will not be available in the case of Bitcoin because no court order in the world is going to be able to recover the private key. The Bitcoin will be lost.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:18px;"><br></span></p><p><span style="font-size:18px;">The key to passing on Bitcoin (or any cryptocurrency) in accordance with the estate plan is make sure that the estate plan provides for disclosure of the Bitcoin assets and provides for a secure method of transfer of the private key to the trustee. The solution may be as simple as a detailed letter of instruction to the successor trustee, which is placed in a safety deposit box along with your trust, or it may involve setting up a mechanical “deadman” switch that transfers your Bitcoin upon your failure to check in. The important thing is for the settlor to work with the estate planning attorney and the trustee to implement a solution that works.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:18px;"><br></span></p><div style="color:inherit;"><p><span style="text-decoration-line:underline;">Additional Articles</span></p><div style="text-align:center;"><ul><li style="text-align:left;"><a href="https://www.southlaurelgroup.com/blogs/post/Cryptocurrencies-in-Trusts-and-Probates" rel="">The basics of managing cryptocurrencies</a></li><li style="text-align:left;"><a href="https://www.southlaurelgroup.com/blogs/post/Should-Cryptocurrencies-be-Part-of-a-Trust-Portfolio" title="Should cryptocurrencies be part of a Trust portfolio?" rel="">Should cryptocurrencies be part of a Trust portfolio?</a><br></li></ul></div></div><p><span style="font-size:18px;"><br></span></p></div>
</div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div> ]]></content:encoded><pubDate>Tue, 04 Jan 2022 09:16:00 -0800</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Managing Social Media Accounts after Death]]></title><link>https://www.southlaurelgroup.com/blogs/post/managing-social-media-accounts-after-death</link><description><![CDATA[How to manage or delete social media accounts after a loved one's death]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="zpcontent-container blogpost-container "><div data-element-id="elm_s35rj9s3SqSceDTTrZkHag" data-element-type="section" class="zpsection "><style type="text/css"></style><div class="zpcontainer-fluid zpcontainer"><div data-element-id="elm_cD0cQnsMT7aVOwcAwRHY2Q" data-element-type="row" class="zprow zprow-container zpalign-items- zpjustify-content- " data-equal-column=""><style type="text/css"></style><div data-element-id="elm_OJALEg6gQhmzSTIEmbIWwQ" data-element-type="column" class="zpelem-col zpcol-12 zpcol-md-12 zpcol-sm-12 zpalign-self- "><style type="text/css"></style><div data-element-id="elm_-nMcSRhgRJmgt1m82oszCA" data-element-type="text" class="zpelement zpelem-text "><style> [data-element-id="elm_-nMcSRhgRJmgt1m82oszCA"].zpelem-text { border-radius:1px; } </style><div class="zptext zptext-align-center " data-editor="true"><div style="color:inherit;"><div style="font-size:12px;"><div style="color:inherit;"><div style="color:inherit;"><div><div><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:13.5pt;color:inherit;">In a <a href="https://www.southlaurelgroup.com/blogs/post/Managing-Your-Digital-Legacy-Social-Media" title="previous post" rel="nofollow">previous post</a>, I outlined the best practice of planning for the disposition of social media accounts&nbsp;<span style="font-style:italic;">before&nbsp;</span>death.&nbsp; Unfortunately, my experience is that most people are not that prepared.&nbsp; In that case, you may find it necessary to&nbsp;manage the social media accounts for a loved one or client <span style="font-style:italic;">after&nbsp;</span>they pass away.</span><br></p></div>
<div><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:13.5pt;">&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></p></div>
<div><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:13.5pt;">There are a few documents that will be necessary across many of the platforms.&nbsp; It will be helpful to gather them at the start.&nbsp;</span></p></div>
<div><ul><li style="margin-left:24px;font-size:13.5pt;"><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:13.5pt;">A digital version of the deceased person’s death certificate.&nbsp; This can be either a scanned PDF or a simple picture (.JPG or other).&nbsp;</span></p></li></ul></div>
<div><ul><li style="margin-left:72px;font-size:13.5pt;"><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:13.5pt;">If you don’t have a copy of the death certificate, some sites will accept a link to an obituary or a memorial card&nbsp;</span></p></li></ul></div>
<div><ul><li style="margin-left:24px;font-size:13.5pt;"><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:13.5pt;">Proof that you have authority to alter the accounts (one of the following):&nbsp;</span></p></li></ul></div>
<div><ul><li style="margin-left:72px;font-size:13.5pt;"><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:13.5pt;">Power of Attorney&nbsp;</span></p></li><li style="margin-left:72px;font-size:13.5pt;"><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:13.5pt;">Last Will and Testament naming you as executor&nbsp;</span></p></li><li style="margin-left:72px;font-size:13.5pt;"><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:13.5pt;">Your birth certificate naming you as the child of the deceased&nbsp;</span></p></li></ul></div>
<div><ul><li style="margin-left:24px;font-size:13.5pt;"><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:13.5pt;">A digital version of your identification&nbsp;</span></p></li></ul></div>
<div><ul><li style="margin-left:72px;font-size:13.5pt;"><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:13.5pt;">Drivers&nbsp;license&nbsp;</span></p></li><li style="margin-left:72px;font-size:11pt;"><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:13.5pt;">State identity card&nbsp;</span></p></li><li style="margin-left:72px;font-size:11pt;"><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:13.5pt;">Passport&nbsp;</span></p></li></ul></div>
<div><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:13.5pt;">&nbsp;</span></p></div>
<div><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:13.5pt;">Once you have your set of documents, here are the specific steps for some of the more popular social media platforms.&nbsp;</span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:13.5pt;"><br></span></p></div>
<div><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:24px;font-weight:700;color:inherit;">Facebook&nbsp;</span><br></p></div>
</div><div><div><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:18px;">As mentioned in the earlier post,&nbsp;there are two options for a deceased person’s&nbsp;Facebook&nbsp;account.&nbsp;</span></p></div>
<div><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:18px;">&nbsp;</span></p></div>
<div><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:18px;">The first option is simply to delete the deceased’s account. To remove your loved one’s account, you’ll need to provide documentation proving you’re an immediate family member or executor of the account holder. According to Facebook, the fastest way to do this is to provide a scan or photo of your loved one’s death certificate.&nbsp;</span></p></div>
<div><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:18px;"><br></span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:18px;">If you don’t have a death certificate, you’ll need to provide one of the proofs of authority listed above AND proof that your loved one or client has passed away.</span></p></div>
<div><p style="text-align:left;"><br></p></div><div></div><div><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:18px;">Facebook&nbsp;recommends&nbsp;that when providing documentation, please&nbsp;remove&nbsp;any personal information they don’t need to fulfill your request, such as a Social Security number. Learn more about removing a deceased family member’s Facebook account &nbsp;<a href="https://www.facebook.com/help/1518259735093203" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><span style="font-weight:bold;">here</span></a>.&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></p></div>
<div><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:18px;">&nbsp;</span></p></div>
<div><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:18px;">The&nbsp;second&nbsp;option is to memorialize the account. When an account is memorialized, the word “Remembering” will be shown next to the person’s name on their profile.  Depending on privacy settings, friends and family can use the page to gather and share memories about the deceased. No one can log in to a memorialized account, which means it’s secure. Learn more about memorialized accounts  <a href="https://www.facebook.com/help/103897939701143/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><span style="font-weight:bold;">here.</span></a>&nbsp;</span></p></div>
<div><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:18px;">&nbsp;</span></p></div>
</div><div><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:24px;font-weight:700;">Instagram&nbsp;</span></p></div>
<div><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:18px;">Instagram&nbsp;is owned by Facebook and has essentially the same process for&nbsp;either&nbsp;removing&nbsp;or&nbsp;memorializing&nbsp;a deceased person’s account.&nbsp;</span></p></div>
<div><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:18px;">&nbsp;</span></p></div>
<div><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:18px;">To remove a deceased’s Instagram account, you’ll need to prove that you’re an immediate family member of the deceased by providing the deceased person’s birth certificate, the deceased person’s death certificate, or proof of authority under local law that you’re the lawful representative of the deceased person, or his/her estate. Learn more about removing a deceased person’s Instagram account  <a href="https://help.instagram.com/264154560391256" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><span style="font-weight:bold;">here.</span></a><span style="font-weight:bold;">&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;</span></p></div>
<div><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:18px;">&nbsp;</span></p></div>
<div><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:18px;">When an Instagram account is memorialized, no one can log in to it. The account will appear the same as it did before it was memorialized, and no one will be able to make changes to any of the account’s existing posts or information. To memorialize an account, you’ll need to provide proof of death, such as a URL to an obituary or an uploaded photo of a newspaper obituary. Learn more about memorializing an account on Instagram  <a href="https://help.instagram.com/231764660354188" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><span style="font-weight:bold;">here.</span></a>&nbsp;</span></p></div>
<div><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:18px;">&nbsp;</span></p></div>
<div><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:24px;font-weight:700;">Twitter&nbsp;</span></p></div>
<div><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:18px;">Twitter allows immediate family members, or authorized persons, to deactivate and remove a deceased’s account.&nbsp;</span></p></div>
<div><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:18px;">In order to remove a deceased user’s account, you must first <a href="https://help.twitter.com/forms/privacy" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><span style="font-weight:bold;">submit a request</span></a>. Twitter will then email you with instructions. You’ll need to provide information about the deceased, a copy of your ID, and a copy of your loved one’s death certificate. Learn more about deactivating a loved one’s Twitter account <a href="https://help.twitter.com/en/rules-and-policies/contact-twitter-about-a-deceased-family-members-account" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><span style="font-weight:bold;">here</span></a>.&nbsp;</span></p></div>
<div><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:18px;">&nbsp;</span></p></div>
<div><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:24px;font-weight:700;">LinkedIn&nbsp;</span></p></div>
<div><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:18px;">LinkedIn will help you remove a deceased member’s profile when you <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/help/linkedin/ask/ts-rdmlp" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><span style="font-weight:bold;">submit this form</span></a>. You’ll need to provide information about your loved one, the URL to their profile, your relationship to them, your loved one’s email address, the date they passed away, a link to their obituary, and the company they most recently worked at. Learn more about removing a loved one’s LinkedIn account <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/help/linkedin/answer/2842/deceased-linkedin-member-removing-profile?lang=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><span style="font-weight:bold;">here</span></a>.&nbsp;</span></p></div>
<div><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:18px;">&nbsp;</span></p></div>
<div><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:24px;font-weight:700;">Snapchat&nbsp;</span></p></div>
<div><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:18px;">Snapchat will delete the account of a deceased loved one for you if you submit <a href="https://support.snapchat.com/en-US/i-need-help?start=5640758388326400" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><span style="font-weight:bold;">this form</span></a> and provide a copy of the death certificate.&nbsp;</span></p></div>
<div><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:18px;">&nbsp;</span></p></div>
<div><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:24px;font-weight:700;">Pinterest&nbsp;</span></p></div>
<div><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:18px;">The best way to remove your deceased loved one’s Pinterest account is to email <a href="mailto:care@pinterest.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><span style="font-weight:bold;">care@pinterest.com</span></a>. You’ll need to provide your information, as well as the name, email address, and username of the deceased. You’ll also need to send Pinterest proof of death, such as a death certificate, obituary URL, or newspaper obituary scan, as well as proof of relationship, such as marriage certificate or proof that you’re named on the obituary. &nbsp;</span></p></div>
</div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div> ]]></content:encoded><pubDate>Tue, 07 Sep 2021 11:03:33 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Managing Your Digital Legacy - Your Social Media]]></title><link>https://www.southlaurelgroup.com/blogs/post/Managing-Your-Digital-Legacy-Social-Media</link><description><![CDATA[With the explosion of online services, all of us have a digital footprint that needs to be managed. This includes contemplating and preparing for what happens after we pass away or can no longer actively manage our digital activities.]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="zpcontent-container blogpost-container "><div data-element-id="elm_0bV1o4xwTFuK4yn6Zqb1aQ" data-element-type="section" class="zpsection "><style type="text/css"></style><div class="zpcontainer-fluid zpcontainer"><div data-element-id="elm_Z9ycZ8OORBqerZ8olJadpw" data-element-type="row" class="zprow zprow-container zpalign-items- zpjustify-content- " data-equal-column=""><style type="text/css"></style><div data-element-id="elm_lBDf4xbcSOWmHI5raqmZeQ" data-element-type="column" class="zpelem-col zpcol-12 zpcol-md-12 zpcol-sm-12 zpalign-self- "><style type="text/css"></style><div data-element-id="elm_sxtJH1lLRPioE3ohlq_YfA" data-element-type="text" class="zpelement zpelem-text "><style> [data-element-id="elm_sxtJH1lLRPioE3ohlq_YfA"].zpelem-text { border-radius:1px; } </style><div class="zptext zptext-align-left " data-editor="true"><p><span style="color:inherit;"></span></p><p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;">With the explosion of online services, all of us have a digital footprint that needs to be managed.&nbsp; This includes considering and preparing for what happens after we pass away or can no longer actively manage our online activities.&nbsp; Social media accounts, in particular, can present real challenges.&nbsp; There may be embarrassing or painful content that you don’t want as your legacy.&nbsp; Even with the most benign accounts, you may not want automated messages to your connections generated forever (birthday or anniversary reminders, friend suggestions, etc.).&nbsp;</span></p><p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;"><br></span></p><p><span style="color:inherit;"></span></p><p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;">In addition to the awkwardness of a social media presence that outlives us, lingering accounts are an invitation to identity theft.&nbsp; Identity thieves regularly scan obituaries and look up social media accounts for information they can use to apply for credit cards, cell phones, loans and more.&nbsp;<span style="text-decoration-line:underline;font-weight:700;">Each year thieves steal the identities of more than 2.5 million deceased Americans.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;"><br></span></p><p><span style="color:inherit;"></span></p><p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;">In the next few posts, I’ll outline some best practices for advance planning of your digital footprint as well as how to manage the situation for loved ones or clients.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;">&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></p><p><span style="color:inherit;"></span></p><p><b><span style="font-size:18pt;">How to set up your own social media accounts in advance of your death or incapacity</span></b></p><p><b><span style="font-size:13.5pt;">&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></b></p><p><span style="color:inherit;"></span></p><p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;">Most of us will leave a social media footprint.&nbsp; What will happen to that presence in the event of our passing or incapacity? Ideally, we should take the following steps in advance:</span></p><p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;"><br></span></p><p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;">Leave explicit instructions:</span></p><ul><li><span style="font-size:13.5pt;"><span style="font-weight:700;">Identify a trusted person to go into your accounts and manage appropriately.</span>&nbsp; This can be a relative, a close friend, an attorney or a fiduciary.&nbsp; Make sure they are aware of their responsibility and any instructions and have explicitly agreed to do this.</span><br></li></ul><ul><li><span style="font-size:13.5pt;"><span style="font-weight:700;">Think through all of your social media accounts.</span>&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;">This can be tricky, since you may have accounts that you no longer use or that you don’t immediately consider to be social media.&nbsp; The truth is that many platforms have a social media component, even if it’s not obvious. Here’s a list of platforms to get you started (not comprehensive):</span><br></li></ul><ul><ul><ul><li><span style="font-size:13.5pt;">Facebook</span>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</li><li>Instagram</li><li>LinkedIn</li><li>WhatsApp</li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li><span style="font-size:13.5pt;">Twitter</span></li><li><span style="font-size:13.5pt;">YouTube</span></li><li><span style="font-size:13.5pt;">Glassdoor</span></li><li><span style="font-size:13.5pt;">Spotify</span></li><li><span style="font-size:13.5pt;">Pandora</span></li><li><span style="font-size:13.5pt;">Snapchat</span></li><li><span style="font-size:13.5pt;">Goodreads</span></li><li><span style="font-size:13.5pt;">Nextdoor</span></li><li><span style="font-size:13.5pt;">Yelp</span></li><li><span style="font-size:13.5pt;">WeChat</span></li><li><span style="font-size:13.5pt;">Weibo</span>&nbsp;&nbsp;</li></ul></ul></ul><ul><li><span style="font-size:13.5pt;"><span style="font-weight:700;">Provide a list of the accounts and log in information for those accounts.</span>&nbsp; Save this information in a secure place with your will, trust documents and other critical information.</span><br></li><li><span style="font-size:13.5pt;"><span style="font-weight:700;">Clearly outline what you would like done.</span>&nbsp; Options include:</span><br></li></ul><ul><ul><ul><ul><li><span style="font-size:13.5pt;">Shut down accounts immediately.&nbsp; This is the simplest and lowest-effort option.</span></li><li>Post a farewell message on accounts so that extended friends and family are aware of the situation and then shut down after a period of time.&nbsp;</li><ul><li>In either of the above scenarios, download content (images, videos, etc.) that remaining loved ones might want.</li></ul></ul><ul><li>Create a memorialized account that is private to just a few people.&nbsp; This is available on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/help/103897939701143/">Facebook</a> and <a href="https://help.instagram.com/231764660354188">Instagram</a>.&nbsp; The accounts will stay up and available to existing connections, but cannot add new connections and will no longer show up in automated feeds for suggested connections, birthday wishes, etc.</li></ul></ul></ul></ul><div><br></div>
<div> A little forethought and planning can avoid complications, awkwardness and potential financial exposure after your death. </div>
<p><b><span style="font-size:13.5pt;"><br></span></b></p><p><b><span style="font-size:13.5pt;">Next post: How to manage social media accounts after the death or incapacity of a loved one, if no explicit arrangements were made.</span></b></p></div>
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